Certainly, endurance is good except about you; fretting is bad except over you; and the affliction about you is great while every other affliction before or after it is small.
Nahj al-Balāgha #1863292. Amīr al-mu’minīn, peace be upon him, said on the grave of the Messenger of Allāh, peace be upon him and his descendants, at the time of...