Hadith.4972 - Abu Basir asked Imam Jafar ibn Muhammad Al-Sadiq (as) about a man who looks at a woman passing by and then turns to look at her from behind.
Imam (as) replied: "Would any of you like someone to look at his family or close female relatives?"
I said: "No."
Imam (as) said: "Then be pleased for others what you are pleased with for yourself."