The term "المأتم" (ma'tam) originally referred to a gathering of men and women for either sorrowful or joyful occasions. Over time, it became specifically associated with gatherings of women during times of mourning for the deceased. It has also been said to apply particularly to young women in mourning (Al-Nihaya).
Additionally, the term "المأتم" can also refer to food that is prepared for the deceased ("Fi").