hadith
1207
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Imam Sadiq (a.s) said: “Whenever two men break off their relations, one or even both will deserve a divine curse. Mutab said: “May I be your devoted servant! If one is the oppressor, why should God curse the one who is oppressed?” Imam Sadiq (a.s) replied: “Because he does not try to invite the other one to improve himself. He is not ready to speak with him. I heard my father say “Whenever two people fight, and one is defeated, the one who is defeated should go to his brother and tell him that he himself is the oppressor, so that they do not break their relations. This is because God the Almighty will take the right of the oppressed one from the oppressor Himself.”
عن أبي عبد الله (عليه السلام) قال
لا يفترق رجلان على الهجران إلا استوجب أحدهما البراءة واللعنة، وربما استحق ذلك كلاهما، فقال له معتب: جعلني الله فداك، هذا الظالم فما بال المظلوم؟ قال: لأنه لا يدعو أخاه إلى صلته ولا يتعامس له عن كلامه، سمعت أبي يقول: إذا تنازع اثنان فعاز أحدهما الآخر فليرجع المظلوم إلى صاحبه حتى يقول لصاحبه: أي أخي أنا الظالم! حتى يقطع الهجران فيما بينه وبين صاحبه، فإن الله تبارك وتعالى حكم عدل يأخذ للمظلوم من الظالم.